Why Being An Introvert Rules

January 10, 2018 (Last Updated: February 23, 2018)
Why Being An Introvert Rules -- It's time to stop being ashamed of being an introvert and start to embrace who we are. Find out why being an introvert comes with huge advantages that make us awesome. |

Oh, introverts, we’ve always had it rough.

People talk about being introverted like it’s a disease, or that the world simply has no room for people like us.

But, as someone probably has tried to tell you, “being introverted means you’re socially awkward, less successful, and super weird.”

First of all, who hurt these people? Second of all, being an introvert actually kicks ass.

Of course, media portrayal of introverts gives us the negative view people have of them. And introverted women are hardly portrayed in the media at all.

Blame this on group mentality favoritism. Advertisements aim to convince you that you’d be happier if you were part of their elusive group of people that use their products or services.  Even something as intimate as tampons are advertised as something to get you back out into the world, instead of, you know, ensuring that your bed doesn’t look like a murder scene.

Introverts obviously know the positives of belonging to a group and socializing often. We just need a little bit of time to prepare.

Being an introvert simply means we gain energy from being alone

This doesn’t mean we only enjoy being alone.

After spending all day with people at work or at school, I need a break from others so that I can recharge. Coming home to an empty apartment or simply being able to close the door to our rooms can mean the world for an introvert. We can be ourselves, free to indulge in whatever solitary activity that we can imagine.

These don’t even need to be elusive “introvert only” activities either. They’re every day occurrences. Browsing the internet on your phone during your lunch break, being able to sit comfortably on a train with your headphones on, and curling up to your favorite movie when you’re home are all introverted activities.


It’s obvious why being alone can be energizing

When I go to sleep I am alone. It doesn’t matter if I’m next to my SO, at a sleepover, or in public. I am alone in my thoughts and dreams, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. In fact, it’s essential for humans to have this solitary break in order for our bodies to even function properly.

Many activities that people do everyday are often done alone. Eating, showering, and driving are other examples of something that you usually do by yourself.


This too, hopefully.

Now, translate this into being curled up under a blanket and watching your favorite movie. Your body is obviously relaxing because it is at rest, but your mind is as well.

Notice how when you’re driving with friends or the music is too loud you stress out because you can’t focus?

When you’re by yourself, you’re directly worrying less about others and instead can focus on you and your needs. I can’t think of anything better than having the freedom to be yourself, and your mind obviously enjoys it as well.


When introverts have a full tank of energy, they can be unstoppable

With a full tank I am fully ready to be social and catch up with friends and family. Though going out for drinks, catching up, and going to work are all things that naturally drain that full tank.

Certain activities and the length of time involved, can feel like a draining nightmare, especially if you can’t escape it. Back in college I had one semester where I had all of my classes in one building from 7am-6pm straight every Tuesday. Basically I would enter and exit the building without seeing sun during the winter months, and it sucked.

Every Monday I would mentally prepare myself before I went in and it still wasn’t enough.

Though some people thrive being around people for that long.


Looking at you, extroverts.

But there’s nothing wrong with not wanting to be around people all day. It’s just not you and you shouldn’t force it.

What’s funny is that the idea of curling up under a million blankets in solitude is actually draining for extroverts. We get made fun because we get tired from being around people, but imagine getting tired from having the freedom to do exactly what you want to do without others’ judgment.


Just kidding extroverts, you’re good people too.

Introverts know when to turn “on” and “off”

One day I had an interesting conversation with some of my coworkers about our schedules. I would get into work at 6:30am and leave at 3:30pm. Why?

It definitely wasn’t because I was a morning person.

It was because there were exceptionally fewer people at work that I needed to interact with that early in the morning. Plus, I got to go home earlier and enjoy my time while the sun was still out. And after all of that, if I got invited to a happy hour event or needed to be in another social setting later, I could get a few hours of rest beforehand.

Some of my coworkers couldn’t comprehend why I wanted to leave work “early” or have opportunities to work from home.

Those same coworkers would put in 10-12 hour days at the office like it was nothing. Their reason? They don’t have anyone to come home to. This was usually because their spouse was just as much of a workaholic, or they lived alone. To them work was home.

Naturally of course, this type of behavior was encouraged by the company. The more people work, the more visible they are and the more they are perceived to be hard workers. This obviously leads to faster promotions and added responsibility. This was one of the reasons I eventually left the company, because I knew that I would never be able to live up to this expectation.


Introverts have a place in this world just as much as extroverts

One big reason you don’t hear much about successful introverts is because the ones that are showcased don’t appear to be introverts.

But rest assured, after the interviews, red carpets, performances, and shows, they simply switch “off” and are soon on their way to their happy place for much needed rest and relaxation.

There are successful introverts in every line of work and there are some jobs that introverts seriously excel in. Engineers, scientists, programmers, artists, writers, and more need to push out the world in order to create quality content. Because of this, being an introvert can lead to many lucrative jobs in a vast amount of industries.


Introverts aren’t always lazy (but it’s okay if they are)

Trust me, if you’re here, you already know that I take no issue with being considered lazy. In fact, I wrote about why lazy people tend to be happier people. You can read that here: 6 Reasons Why Lazy People Tend To Be More Successful.

As much as an introvert loves the opportunity to lounge around by themselves, not everything an introvert does has to be within the comfort of their own home. Biking, hiking, exercising, are all examples of activities that introverts love doing.

Introverts also tend to be more diligent at creating solutions to problems. Being introverted doesn’t mean that you hate working, it means that you enjoy doing it by yourself.

It’s much easier to create an environment of solitude for productivity. And if you’re a lazy introvert, like myself, you are probably the most productive working from your laptop in bed.



Earning cash in comfort? Check.


Additionally, if you happen to be a lazy introvert, you are part of a beautiful group of people that have made some pretty important inventions that we use today.
So, there you have it. There is no need to be ashamed to be an introvert. Check out these Myers-Briggs results and ask yourself if these results seem so bad.


People have made successful careers and lives out of being introverted
, and they didn’t let incorrect media portrayal persuade them to be someone they’re not. There are a ton of advantages that comes out of being an introvert that allow us to know when to relax, when to be social, and manage our energy so that we’re able to live our best lives. Flip the script. Be yourself and embrace your introverted tendencies and let the world know that it needs us.

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    Because She Writes
    April 30, 2018 at 3:29 PM

    This is a really cool article about introverts, and accurate too( from this introvert). Keep up the good work.

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    April 16, 2018 at 11:21 AM

    I love how relatable this post is! (I’m an INTJ) I was having a conversation with a friend this weekend about my needs as an introvert & I’ll definitely be sharing this article with them! 😂

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    April 16, 2018 at 11:18 AM

    I love this! It’s so relatable! I was just having a discussion with one of my extroverted friends about how sometimes I just need to take a step back and be on my own to recharge and as an extrovert they really didn’t understand. I’m glad I came across this blog post though because I’m going to share it with them! Lol

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      Leslie Johnson
      April 20, 2018 at 12:14 PM

      Thank you! I’m glad that this could help you explain things better!

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    Katie C
    February 7, 2018 at 4:36 PM

    High five to all my fellow introverts who’ve commented on this post too XD Nice to get confirmation that we don’t need to pretend to be extroverts!

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    Angela | A Serene Pursuit
    February 6, 2018 at 12:52 PM

    Introverts rock! I just feel so much better spending the weekend at home and getting stuff done. My parents used to think I hide in my room all day and it’s like no…I’m investing in myself lol. Thank you for this lovely post!

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      Leslie Johnson
      February 6, 2018 at 4:17 PM

      That’s such a great way of putting it! I love investing in myself. I’ll be sure to use that if anyone criticizes my introverted ways! Thank you!

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    Life With Han
    January 30, 2018 at 12:21 PM

    I’m such an introvert and I’ve had to learn over time that its okay to be like this, I really enjoy time on my own and there isn’t anything wrong with that! x

    Han |

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    January 28, 2018 at 7:50 PM

    I’m an introvert, so I could really relate to this. I’m a teacher, so I spend my day surrounded by people and talking. I love having some time at lunch for myself, so I usually spend my lunch in my classroom (grateful for the silence). However, one of the teachers said “we’re all extroverts here”. I guess I take on extrovert qualities during the day. My favourite part of my day is driving home and just listening to music.

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      Leslie Johnson
      January 28, 2018 at 8:01 PM

      I can only imagine how good it must feel to go from teaching to having your alone time! Taking on extroverted qualities when we need to is what makes us introverts so special.

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    marlena bontas
    January 21, 2018 at 2:21 PM

    I love introverts as I am one myself.
    Most of my friends are introverts, too. When I communicate with an extrovert, it is very exhausting for some reason. I admire them a lot for being so ‘out there’ but they need a lot of input and socialization. From my POV, I could stay home for weeks without going out or talking to others, just writing and watching my movies. Some folks don’t understand how important it is for introverts to recharge themselves from silence, peace and alone time. But, as I said, I admire extroverts and wouldn’t mind being in relationships with them. We can learn a lot from each other.

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      Leslie Johnson
      January 21, 2018 at 4:38 PM

      I can totally relate to not needing contact for quite some time. My alone time is so necessary, but I promise that I’m a much better person once I’ve had time to recharge. I can hang with the most extrovert of extroverts once I’ve hit my introvert quota.

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    January 20, 2018 at 8:23 PM

    I’m an introvert and relate so much to this…I’m alone right now after a day out with others. This is heaven.

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      Leslie Johnson
      January 20, 2018 at 9:11 PM

      I’m glad you agree. I’m over here living my best life alone tonight as well.

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    January 17, 2018 at 8:39 PM

    Awesome piece. Perhaps, the best praise I’ve read about us introverts. I chose my 7-3 work schedule for the exact reasons you listed and it has worked out beautifully for my well-being. Thanks for sharing.

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    LaToya Spann
    January 17, 2018 at 11:49 AM

    Love it. We aren’t recognized enough in a positive manner.

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      Leslie Johnson
      January 17, 2018 at 4:27 PM

      I’m glad that you enjoyed it. More introverts need to be celebrated.

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    Red Ant
    January 17, 2018 at 11:21 AM

    Fellow introvert here! I enjoyed this post and related on many levels. I’m an introvert who has bit of extroversion when necessary. Sometimes this is at work or social settings but I definitely need to switch off and relish in my alone time 🙂

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    Amerci Totty
    January 14, 2018 at 10:17 PM

    I am such an introvert. And its nerveracking to be involved all the time and sometimes we do need that time alone to replenish that energy and collect ourselves. I agree its not a bad thing. I have three kids and I’m an introvert and cherish my alone time. I like this post because I can deeply relate. Welcome to the blogger life!

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      Leslie Johnson
      January 14, 2018 at 10:32 PM

      Thank you! Being “on” all the time makes me an unhappy girl. Glad I’m not alone.

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    January 14, 2018 at 10:02 PM

    I get asked a lot if being in a tractor 10-12 hours a day when we are in the fields gets boring. Nope! Not for me. Introvert’s paradise!

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      Leslie Johnson
      January 14, 2018 at 10:30 PM

      That sounds like the dream! I’m spending this long weekend physically in solitude and I’ve been so stress-free + productive.

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